Hi Tricky625.
"I'm pressing record on camera but its just recording straight to tape!"
There are a lot more knowledgeable folks on this forum than I, but if I understand your question, try this.
On the log and capture window go to the Capture Settings Tab (upper right side) . Set to "non-controllable device". Now FCP will not look for time code.
Now on the main log and capture window press "capture...now" (lower right)
I hope this helps.
Rob