This is a job for a professional. I think there are ways to redraw the waveform peaks in Pro Tools to alleviate this kind of problem, but that has its limitations as well. A compressor/limiter will only clamp down on levels; it will not correct the distortion. Usually you're looking at ADR. If ADR isn't possible, you can make it less harsh by taming the upper mids and trebles.
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