<<<remote desktop and vice versa?>>>
Oh, we know what you're talking about. It's just the question is a little wacky.
The IO has a very special relationship with the machine to which it's connected. It uses special FireWire hardware communications and special setups inside FCP. No, I don't think you can use the FCP on one machine to run the IO on another.
You *might* be able to run the IO Mac remotely, but you would just be pushing the buttons and saving the work as if you were sitting at the IO Mac. You wouldn't be crossing the Final Cuts--and you would still have to walk over to the IO Mac to pick up the work.
This is me listening for the argument.
Koz